Table Of ContentThe
Unchained
Man
The Alpha Male 2.0
by Caleb Jones
Table of Contents
Part One The Alpha Male of the 21st Century: The Alpha 2.0 ......... 1
1 – The Five Traits of the Alpha Male 2.0 .................................................... 2
2 – How to Accomplish Long-Term Happiness .......................................... 25
Part Two Your Enemies ...................................................................... 45
3 – How Society Programs You, and How to Overcome It ......................... 46
4 – How Your Obsolete Biology Limits You, and How to Overcome It .... 62
5 - The Six Societal Values ......................................................................... 73
6 – A Masculine Man in a Feminine World ................................................ 89
Part Three Your Life ......................................................................... 101
7 – The Seven Key Areas of Your Life ..................................................... 102
8 – Formulating Your Personal Code ........................................................ 115
9 – Finding Your Life Mission .................................................................. 123
10 – Setting Societally Independent Goals ................................................ 137
11 – How to Effectively Manage Your Time ............................................ 146
Part Four Your Women .................................................................... 169
12 – Overcoming Your Sexual Programming ........................................... 170
13 – The Hidden Ways Women Differ From Men .................................... 200
14 – Integrating Love, Sex, and Marriage into the Alpha 2.0 Lifestyle .... 216
15 – How to Become Internally Attractive to Women .............................. 232
16 – How to Become Externally Attractive to Women ............................. 246
17 – How to Get to Sex Whenever You Want ........................................... 254
18 – Serious Relationships, Alpha 2.0 Style .............................................. 273
Part Five Your Money ....................................................................... 294
19 – Work That Frees You ........................................................................ 295
20 – Creating an Alpha 2.0 Business ......................................................... 307
21 – How to Get to High Income Fast ....................................................... 318
22 – Dominating Your Finances to Maximize Your Lifestyle .................. 333
Part Six Your World.......................................................................... 346
23 – The Alpha 2.0 Father: When (And When Not) to Have Kids ............ 347
24 – The Alpha 2.0 Father: Raising Children ............................................ 360
25 – Getting Out of the Box ...................................................................... 380
26 – Maintaining Maximum Physical Energy ........................................... 388
27 – Exploring the World .......................................................................... 400
Afterword .................................................................................................. 408
Further Information ................................................................................... 411
Glossary of Terms and Acronyms ............................................................. 412
Acknowledgements ................................................................................... 415
About The Author ..................................................................................... 418
Happy-Fun Disclaimers
Disclaimer 1
While this book will be extremely helpful to you in building a new,
powerful life of freedom and happiness, there will be statements and
concepts within that may make you angry. You may even perceive these
statements as a personal assault upon you, your relationships, or your life
choices. This will be especially true if this is the first time you've been
exposed to these concepts. I’m telling you this in advance. There. Now
you can't say you weren't warned. Read on at your own risk.
This book is about facts and systems. Any controversial fact given in
this book has its source referenced in the footnotes, so if you don’t like the
fact, go yell at them; I’m just the messenger.
Nothing I say here is an attack against you, your current relationship,
your current business or career, or any decisions you've made up until
now. If you view anything in this book as such, that's your own
interpretation and not what was intended.
Disclaimer 2
This is a book for men. If you’re a woman, you’re certainly invited to
the party if you’re curious, and a few of the chapters can apply to both
sexes. Just remember that this a book written specifically for guys. Keep
this in mind if anything you read in this book offends you, which it is
likely to do, or doesn’t make sense to you, because it was written for a
man.
Remember that at any time you are more than welcome to put this
book down and go read a book, magazine, or web site written for women,
of which there are more than enough.
That being said, over the years I have been pleasantly surprised at the
number of women who enthusiastically support the concepts and structures
this book outlines. You ladies give me hope.
Disclaimer 3
I am not an attorney. I am in no way qualified to render legal advice,
and no advice in this book should be considered as such. While I will not
be recommending anything illegal, laws do vary greatly from region to
region. Please check with a local attorney before attempting any
relationship or business structures described in this book if you have any
questions or concerns.
All names of non-famous individuals used in this book have been
changed to protect anonymity.
Part One
The Alpha Male of the 21st Century:
The Alpha 2.0
The Unchained Man – The Alpha Male 2.0
Chapter 1 –
The Five Traits of the Alpha Male 2.0
The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move
ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer.
Arnold Schwarzenegger
Winter, 1982.
In a vast and powerful empire known as United States, at the edge of
a small and unimportant city, there was a normal family living in a normal
home. I was a ten year-old child living there. There was a severe recession,
though I knew little of it at the time. My troubles were far more personal
and internal.
I was in my bed, unable to sleep, thinking tortured thoughts. Slowly, I
crept from my bed and made my way down the dark hallway to my
parent’s room. Seeing they were still awake, I entered silently, hoping they
would be have the answer to the question that made peaceful sleep for me
impossible.
My parents were good, honest, normal people. Like most normal
people, sometimes they were happy and sometimes they were not. My dad
was the typical high-stress guy who worked very hard at a job he hated,
and was often either irritable or exhausted unless it was a Saturday. My
mom, a former Catholic nun before she married my father, was always in
chipper spirits, but raising five rowdy children, a dog, and two cats on one
man’s barely adequate income during a recession often took a toll on her.
As I entered the room, I was relieved to find them in good spirits, for
my questions for them required clear minds. They were already in bed but
with the lights still on, reading magazines and talking quietly to each other.
They greeted me warmly, but I was in no mood for small talk.
“I have a question for both of you,” I said gravely.
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They gave me the look that you might expect from two adults
watching a ten year-old trying to convey concepts of great depth. I was
used to this look. As a child, I received it often.
“Okay,” my mom said, trying not to offend. My dad looked up from
his magazine, a smile on his face.
“Alright,” I said, beginning to pace back and forth like an attorney
delivering his final summation, “I think I’ve figured this out. I’m going to
run it past you and I need you to tell me if I’m right or wrong.”
“Okay,” they said, smiles forming but remaining politely interested.
“Alright,” I said again, “I think this is how life works. First, you’re
born, but for about four or five years you really can’t do anything because
you’re little. Then you have to go to school for 12 or 13 years straight.
Then, if you’re ‘lucky,’ you go to more school for another four or six or
eight years. After that, you have to go to work…for 40 years! Then, after
all of that, if you’re ‘lucky,’ you can retire and stop working. But by then
you’re old and grey, and so you can’t really do much because you might
break a hip or something. You get about ten years of that, then you reach
age 75 and die.”
I stood there waiting for a response. My parents just stared back at
me.
“Well?” I said, “Is that how life works?”
The answer they gave me haunted me for decades. So terrifying was
their answer that it was the turning point in my life.
They smiled, nodded approvingly, and both said “Why yes, Caleb.
That’s exactly how it works. Very good!”
The Prison
If you’re not paying very close attention to life, or if you allow the
animalistic desires of your mind and body to operate on autopilot, you are
living within the confines of an invisible prison, a reinforced cell made
from bars forged from your own fears and obsolete biology, constructed by
old and powerful men long dead, hundreds or even thousands of years ago.
Your life doesn’t belong to you. It belongs to them and their descendants.
This is "The Prison."
Paradoxically, you were never designed for life within this prison
cell. As a man, you are designed for adventure, excitement, achievement,
freedom, sex, strength, power, constancy, and happiness. The Prison
allows for very little of these things. Your role is not to be happy or
fulfilled. Your role is to serve, conform, and stay quiet. You are to serve
The Prison, not yourself.
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Many have compared this to the society of blissfully unaware
captives portrayed in the movie The Matrix. This is an inaccurate
comparison.
Rather than an ignorant slave, you are a fully willing drone, doing
what you’re told to serve The Prison, but on some level you're also
convinced it’s the right thing to do. Your role as a man in The Prison is to
go to school, get a job, then as the saying goes, “buy things you don’t
need, with money you don’t have, to impress people you don’t like.”
You are to carefully date one woman at a time, get married, spend
years following your wife’s orders, have 2.3 children, get divorced, lose a
bunch of money, marry another woman, and then follow a new set of
orders.
You're supposed to get angry at distant and unassailable politicians,
CEOs, Wall Street bankers, and anyone diametrically opposed to your
political opinions.
You're supposed to go into debt, be terrified of terrorists and climate
change, go on one decent vacation a year, then grow old and expect your
neighbor and your kids to kick in for your retirement, if any.
Questioning any of these things invokes the ire of others. Words like
“selfish” or “immature” or "narcissistic" are thrown at you. No one wants
to be called selfish. So you learn to step back into line. The Prison endures.
Once when I was 12, my dad was grumbling about waking up early in
the morning for work.
“Why do you wake up so early when you hate it?” I asked, “You have
your own business. Can’t you wake up whenever you want?”
“I have to be at work by 8am,” he said resignedly, “That’s what the
marketplace expects.”
The Prison isn’t questioned.
When I was 17, I told my mom I was planning to “skip” going to
college.
“You have to go to college!” she cried, “You’ll be a loser if you don’t
go! You’ll be a bum! If you want to be a bum on the street, then fine!”
The Prison is defended.
When I was 23, I told some of my coworkers about my goal to have a
six-figure income before I was thirty, and then only work three or four
days a week while traveling often.
“Oh right,” they laughed, “We had goals like that too when we were
your age. Ha! You’ll learn.”
The Prison is reinforced.
When I was 37, I was explaining to my friend my system of how I am
able to date three or four women at a time, and not be cheating because all
the women know I’m dating others and continue to see me anyway.
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