The Diary of a Pick Up Artist: Memoirs of an Average Frustrated Chump

413 Pages·2009·2.02 MB·English

by  Adam Lyons

Diary of a PUA - Adam Lyons
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Contents
Introduction

3

The Beginning

7

Developing into a PUA

36

The Arrival of the PUA

74

Improving Myself

181

Principles of Attraction - My Method

256

Number 1 PUA in the UK

367

Glossary

411
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Diary of a PUA - Adam Lyons
Introduction
What you’re about to read is my personal adventure through
the seduction community. A few years ago I had hit this point in my
life where I was having no success with women and knew something
had to be done about it. I had read some books and searched the
Internet, which lead me to this. It all started with one post on an
Internet forum on the 5th of July 2006. This forum is where guys
discussed women and seduction.
This is the journey I took through my first year in the pick up
community. Here are my success stories, failures, realizations and
insights into how I developed a lot of my theories.
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My First Post: July 05, 2006
Hey Guys,
Thanks for welcoming me. It was a seriously good night and a
definite eye opener for a newbie like me.
Adam
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! Unknown to me at the time this was the first of what would
be many, many posts on that forum, each one bringing me one step
closer to my goal of being able to reach my personal holy grail: the
perfect woman.
! The forum was, and probably still is, populated with
hundreds of guys looking to achieve their own personal goals, all
revolving around the same single topic – women. Whether they
wanted to lose their virginity, sleep with hundreds of girls before
they reached the age of 25, find their perfect girlfriend or learn how
to sleep with a stripper, this was the place to come.
! It was a haven for men with no understanding of the secretive
creatures we know as women. It was a place where they discuss and
teach each other the things they felt their parents should have taught
them.
! I only had a simple goal. I wanted to meet the perfect girl, the
girl of my dreams. Someone who a Dungeons and Dragons role
playing geek could only ever fantasize about. I wanted a tall, slim,
sexy, down to earth, funny, popular girl. The kind of girl who would
have made prom queen at school. The kind of girl who would
probably have been nice enough to not push me down the stairs at
school, and may even have shot the odd smile to the awkward, nerdy
school kid. The kind of girl who was the head cheerleader in those
high school movies you watch whilst growing up.
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! In real life I doubt that many geeks end up dating that prom
queen. Were I not so much of a geek, maybe I’d have had a chance.
Unfortunately for me, I was that geek.
! I’d love to say I wasn’t the stereotypical geek at school, but
unfortunately I was. From my gel slicked hair and side parting with a
small clump at the front that refused to go down no matter how much
gloop you put on it, through to my awkward walk and hunched over
body posture from carrying a bag too heavily filled with all of my
school books for every day
of the week and acne
ridden face with wonky
teeth. I was pretty much as
stereotypical as you could
get.
! I remember crying
after I left school. Not
with tears of sadness, nor
even with tears of joy, but
with tears of regret –
regretting all of the things
I’d never done, and all the girls I didn’t kiss. I decided at the age of 15
I’d do something about it. Though unfortunately for me it took me
10 years to do something serious about it.
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! A friend of mine told me about Neil Strauss’s book The
Game while I was in a particularly damaging relationship.
Unfortunately it took another six months, hundreds of massive
arguments, a break up and the loss of property worth over £2,000 to
finally make me read it. He told me that I’d take to it like a duck to
water. I read it within a day
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The Beginning
Watching those guys on that first day I went out with them
was incredible. They were opening random girls, people they had
never met. Although they didn’t get every girl’s phone number, they
got more than I could ever imagine getting myself.
! There was one girl in particular that caught my eye: a hot
blonde standing alone by the side of a small ice-cream shop.
Everyone had approached her and failed. I decided it would be good
for me to try.
! I don’t remember exactly
what I said, but I did manage to
get her phone number. Not a
great deal in the scheme of
things, she never replied to my
texts and didn’t recognize me
when I stopped her in the streets
again a few weeks later. But it
was witnessed by everyone
around me, who were very
impressed at my game. Nothing
big yet, but I had been noticed.
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I went home feeling good.
! For the first time in a long time, I had learnt a valuable
lesson. You CAN meet a girl randomly on the street and get her to
like you. Maybe, just maybe, there was a hope for the geek yet.
! I had a flat mate who completely disagreed with what I was
doing. He would often ridicule me as I dived out to go practicing in
Leicester Square. This was all to change when his girlfriend dumped
him. I decided to make things better by taking him out to a strip club
for the night…
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The Stringfellows Disaster: July 06, 2006
I went out sarging for the first time on Tuesday and thought I
did OK by getting a number close on my first HB7.5. So after
that I decided I would go along to Stringfellows just to try my
hand at stripper game. Knowing I would fail, what did I have to
lose? ... Little did I know.
I didn't have a wing, so I called my flat mate and invited him to
come with me. I explained a few of the basics. Knowing I
would fail there didn't seem to be much point going into detail.
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We stand by the bar and a stripper approaches. She was
nothing amazing looks-wise but still, she touches my arm and I
use a quick "hands off the merchandise" routine. I turn this
into a "sexual predator" routine, discussed with my friend, and
the girl gets quickly into the conversation. In fact, she gets
really into it and invites two more girls to defend all females
honour to justify the fact that they are not all predators. This
was ten minutes into a three way conversation and little did I
know how terrible this would turn.
My friend gives me a 'wow man I can't believe this shit works'
look and then starts giving massive indicators of interest to the
first girl. At this the conversation shifts drastically. The other
girls walk off, and him and her are getting close... but it’s on
her terms. The next thing I know I turn around and my friend
and the girl are gone.
About 45 minutes pass and I see the stripper without my friend.
"What have you done to my friend?" I asked.
She tells me he has gone to get money to pay for his dance. I
start to suspect that bringing my friend may not have been such
a good idea.
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Thirty minutes later and she approaches with a big man in tow.
"Where's your friend?"
"I have no idea, has he paid you?"
Obviously he hasn't paid and now it is becoming increasingly
obvious he has left me to fend for myself.
Naturally, I offer to reimburse the girl the £20 for the dance
only to be told that my friend didn't just dance with her. He
danced with two girls and took added extras (whatever that
means)! He owes them around £120. I give them the £20 for
good will and say that I won't pay for my friend but I will look
for him and get him to pay them back.
When I finally find my friend, I find out the poor sap actually
thought the technique had worked so well that he had pulled!
He accepted everything the girls offered, and then when it was
time to pay, he made an excuse and ran for the hills! He
actually ended up in East Putney through fear of being chased.
All in all not a great success.
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