Massage: Tantric Massage for Undiscovered Pleasures and Better Relationships

96 Pages·2015·0.56 MB·English

by  Barbara Belton

Tantric Massage Master the Art of

Tantric Massages to Discover New
Pleasures and Improve Your Relationship
or Marriage
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Ta ble of Contents

Introduction
Chapter 1: Understanding Tantric Massage and Tantric Sex
Chapter 2: History of Tantric Sex
Chapter 3: The Benefits of Tantric Massage and Tantric Sex for Couples
Chapter 4: So… How do I get Started?
Chapter 5: Types of Intimacy
Chapter 6: Full Body Tantric Massage: Face Down
Chapter 7: Full Body Tantric Massage: Front Side
Chapter 8: Massaging His Genital Areas: The Lingam Massage
Chapter 9: Massaging His Genital Areas - The Sacred Spot and the Tantric
Testicle Massage
Chapter 10: Massaging Her Genital Areas: The Yoni Massage
Chapter 11: The Healing Breast Massage and Tantric Anal Massage for Her
Chapter 12: Tantric Sex Techniques
Chapter 13: Tantric Sex Positions
Chapter 14: Tantric Exercises
Chapter 15: Bonus Chapter - The Taoist Thrust, Massage oil and How to Make
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Introduction

Want to how to use the magic of tantric massage and tantric sex to increase
physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy in your marriage or relationship?

Everyone knows that it takes more than just a physical connection to build a
lasting relationship. Thankfully, sex is more than just a meeting of two bodies.
When done correctly, sex can also be used as a means to connect with your lover
not just on the physical plane but on the emotional and spiritual levels as well.
Tantric sex is sex done correctly. It is sex as it should be. Whereas regular sex
consumes your energy, tantric sex merges your energy and that of your lover and
connects it with the limitless, free-flowing energies of the universe. Tantric sex
energizes whereas regular sex wears you out. Tantric sex nurtures. Tantric sex
heals.

The tantric touch has the power to rid the body of physical, emotional and
psychological blocks that prevent people from truly opening up to the idea of
love, trust and commitment. For couples that love each other, tantric lovemaking
is an enduring means of communication, an ancient, unspoken language that
says, “You make me whole”.

Tantric lovemaking allows you to experience sex to its fullest potential. Whereas
regular sex is focused on genital orgasms, tantric sex will enable you to achieve
full-body orgasms that are stronger, longer and more satisfying. More than that,
tantric orgasms turn you and your lover into one organism. In tantric sex, not
only do you “come together” but also you “come as one.” Simply put, tantric sex
is the key to orgasms that last and marriages that last.

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Chapter 1: Understanding Tantric Massage and
Tantric Sex

Tantric Massage

Tantric massage is a language that requires no words. It is an art directed by
ancient philosophies from India, China and Nepal. Whereas before, the
knowledge and practice of this massage was exclusive only for royalty,
nowadays any couple can benefit from its pleasuring, healing powers. In order to
build a loving, lasting and satisfying marriage or relationship, each individual
should first learn to love himself/herself. He/she should first experience a sense
of satisfaction within himself/herself. When done correctly, tantric massage can
heal you physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually so that you can come
into the relationship as a whole person, ready to give your all to your partner.

While tantric massage can be used as a means of relaxing each other’s bodies to
prime each other for intercourse, it can also be used as a method of safe no-
intercourse sex. For couples that are not yet ready to engage in intercourse, it’s
possible to achieve both arousal and orgasm through tantric massage alone. This
way, new couples can have a means of connecting with each other as they try to
get to know each other on a deeper level.

If you’re a married couple, tantric massage can be used as a way of deepening
your intimacy. When used as foreplay, this type of massage will assist you in
gradually building your desire for each other, allowing the sensations to simmer,
so that once you have intercourse and achieve orgasm, it will be more than just a
feeling of build-up and release. Instead, it will turn into a seismic, soul-shaking
surrender.
Is there more to sex?

Nowadays, so much pressure is laid upon people about sexual intercourse. For
instance, men worry excessively about their penis size, their ability to maintain
their erections and whether they have enough control and stamina to provide
pleasure to their partners. The prevalence of pornography and the way the media
portrays sex these days do nothing to help boost men’s self-esteem or their skills
in bed. As a result, the world ends up with a generation of sexually uneducated
and incompetent lovers. Likewise, a great number of women are suffering
silently, tormented that they are unable to achieve orgasm through intercourse.
Sadly, during the passage of time, most have come to accept that multiple, mind-
blowing orgasms are nothing but a fantasy experienced only by heroines in
erotic romance novels. As a result, they have developed a mediocre expectation
of sex, telling themselves “Yep, this is what real life sex is. No fireworks. No
paroxysms of pleasure coursing up and down my body.”

Contrary to what most people have been made to believe, genital orgasms are
not the centerpiece of sexual experiences. But as it is, so much emphasis has
been placed on genital orgasms that when you do have one, you wonder why it
still leaves a vacuum within your soul. As a species, we have been designed with
the “prospective” gene. We’re constantly trying to seek out better options.
Furthermore, our inborn curiosity causes us to always wonder what’s on the
other side of the fence. We find ourselves wondering “Is there more to sex?” and
“Would sex be better if I did it with someone else?” This is when the roots of
infidelity begin to take hold.

The thing is, there is more to sex than what people have been preconditioned to
believe. Most people have this idea that orgasms are the be-all and end-all of
sexual intercourse but tantric sex goes way beyond genital gratification. Instead,
it is focused on full-body orgasms.

Genital Orgasms vs. Full-Body Orgasms Our bodies are made up of
chakras which are vortex-like energy centers governing our emotions and bodily
functions. This includes sex and pleasure, with the sexual energy center located
in the sacral chakra. In the practice of tantric massage and tantric sex, you are
activating this chakra and wielding and directing this energy within your body.
This way, instead of the orgasmic energy being localized to the genital area, you
are able to distribute the sensations of bliss throughout your entire body. When
this energy is directed towards the heart chakra, it will enable you to feel deeper
love for your partner. When allowed to travel to your head and pass through the
divine energy center, that sexual energy can transcend into an otherworldly
orgasmic encounter. When you achieve this kind of orgasm, you are able to
reach a higher level of blissful consciousness.

Being One with Each Other In a rush to achieve genital orgasm, couples
tend to treat sex as a means to an end instead of the loving, nurturing and
physically, emotionally and spiritually bonding experience that it’s supposed to
be. As a result, they achieve nothing but a brief and shallow physical connection.
This yields orgasms that, though pleasurable, are empty and short-lived. Because
of this preoccupation to reach climax, it’s a challenge for couples to really “be
with each other” during sex let alone “come together” during climax.

Couples can perform tantric massage before sex in order to align their chakras
with each other. This way, their energies become in sync. When this is achieved,
you are able to become more sensitive to your partner’s needs. Likewise, this
will allow you to experience his/her pleasure so that sex doesn’t become a
separate experience for the two of you but something that you experience as one.

The Tantric Orgasm: You, Your Partner and the Universe Tantra is
a word with origins that can be traced from the ancient Sanskrit language. It
translates to “expansion through awareness.” Tantric sex does more than just
aligning couples’ energies together. It also allows them to align themselves with
the universe. Tantric lovemaking upholds the belief that man and woman are
equals. Furthermore, tantric philosophy supports the equality and
interconnectedness of all beings in this universe. From two persons, you melt
into one and as one entity, you melt into the world. The energies exchanged and
circulated throughout your bodies during your union will then be released into
the universe to touch and to bless everyone and everything. Simply put, tantric
sex is a marriage of your energies and that combined energy is being witnessed,
accepted and experienced by the world .