Table Of ContentMarriage and Intimacy
A Guide to Growing a Happy Relationship Filled
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Table of content
Introduction
Seeing Beyond the Imperfections
Conversation- Learning to Ask for what You Want
Making your Bedroom a Safe Haven
Your Partner’s needs Before Your Own
Defeating Sexual Dysfunction in Women
Dealing with Hurt –Forgiveness, Always a Virtue
Conclusion
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Marriage and Romance
Stirring the Nest
Stuff You Don’t Need
Thinking Positive Daily
Embracing the Resistance
Starting Now
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I wish to thank and congratulate you for downloading the book “How to Grow Sexual Intimacy”. This
book is meant to serve as a guide for women on how to build and sustain sexual intimacy; a key
ingredient to any successful marriage.
You see it is one thing to really love and adore someone yet another to communicate that through
action. At any one time, words still remain meaningless without actions. Not to mean however that
intimacy is the ultimate expression of love, but it does remain the cutting edge after feelings and those
meaningless words settle down.
It is however often easier to blame a failing marriage on finances, career commitments or even
parenting, but the unyielding y truth is, lack of sexual intimacy is trending a major marriage killer
today. Thanks to Holly Wood, romance novels and past sexual experiences, many people approach
marriage with ungrounded perceptions towards sex. Because of this notion, they carry insidious
expectations which if they are not met, can spell serious repercussions in any marriage.
Intimacy for starters is not all about what happens in between the sheets; it’s rather about everything
else that transpires before sex. Sexual intimacy is simply the icing on the cake; it is where the ultimate
deal is sealed. In essence, how often you want to make love to your partner or how often they want to
make love to you lies on a thin line between romance and sex, sexual intimacy!
In reality, men and women view romance and sex through varied lenses. It is imperative to seek to
meet your spouse’s both physical and emotional needs. Make romance a priority in your relationship,
create an ambient setting for sex in the bedroom, communicate your commitment and love for them.
Bottom line; go all the way for them without holding back.
Continue reading and it remains my greatest hope that the content herein is able to help you improve
on intimacy, romance and sex in your marriage. Here’s to a “Happily ever after” for you.
Chapter 1
Seeing Beyond the imperfections
Marriage is not a romance movie
You must admit that when it comes to a romance movie, everything is just flawless. Like boy meets girl, sweeps her so off her feet, falls
crazily in love, gets married and lives happily ever after. I mean what’s not to love in that fairy tale?
Tell you the truth, though, romance movies dictate an over-simplified version of how things actually really happens. Here everything sort
of works itself out in time and the problems are never real, always easy to solve.
Sadly, we all know that real life events don’t work that way. It becomes a real story, about real people, with real problems. Sorry to
disappoint you but your life is not about to work out like in that romance movie, it shouldn’t! You see there will be heartbreaks and trials,
these are inevitable, you will triumph and suffer for love and as for that happily ever after, you can bet it won’t come cheap.
The good news is that living in reality is incredibly beautiful and liberating. Trying to live your life as that of romantic series and films can
easily set you up for disconnect and discontent having to face the reality that your real life love story and marriage will never measure
up.
Not to mean however that it is impossible to meet a prince because it is possible to even marry one for keeps. But remember that he will
be human, with faults and weaknesses no matter how exceptional and wonderful he is. So I guess at one point, you’ve just got to drop
the crazy metaphor of fairy tale romance to find true love and happiness.
The Utmost Surrender
As a reality check, a marriage is made by two imperfect people despite the idealized version most of us persist to cling onto. There will
be many mistakes made, obstacles created and hearts broken; in fact you should know that it’s only about to get overly chaotic, but hey,
that’s the beauty of it.
That you encounter bumps and wrinkles along the way; this can only ignite your zeal and resilience. Just as the best leaders have been
made through the glaring face of adversity and triumph, so is a resilient marriage.
You are therefore going to need to learn to embrace the mistakes you’ve made and those of your spouse and instead use them as a
learning platform. Love accepts immense imperfections; to love is to surrender to imperfect nature and the inevitable, to fully
accommodate.
You are going to need to quit trying so much to fix the other person and instead find inexhaustible ways to complement their flaws. You
see fixing is always an inside job and given that all of us are like old houses, fixing one thing no doubt gets another broken.
Pursue therefore the wealth of abundance that comes from inspiring, appreciating and loving genuinely. It is about surrendering to your
marriage, to your spouse and finding them perfect through all their imperfections. When we say love conquers all, this includes the
