Islam: Questions And Answers - Manners (Part 2)

325 Pages·2007·2.61 MB·English

by  Muhammad

Islam: Questions And Answers
Volume 18
Manners (Part 2)
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Islam: Questions And Answers
Volume 18
Manners (Part 2)
Muhammad Saed Abdul-Rahman
B.Sc., DipHE
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© Muhammad Saed Abdul-Rahman, 2003
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Contents
Introduction ..............................................................................1
Chapter 1...................................................................................3
Relationships between the two genders...............................3
49024: He wants to look at women in the street
with the intention of proposing marriage........................3
36741: Children who have reached the age of ten
must be separated in their beds .......................................5
45883: He is studying in a mixed university;
how should he deal with female teachers and
students?..........................................................................6
45668: Is what he did to find out about his
fiancée correct? .............................................................10
40618: Can she uncover her face in front of
her sister’s husband? .....................................................12
36548: What is the relationship of a woman to
the man who has divorced her?.....................................14
27329: She has repented from an illicit
relationship but she wants to contact him in
order to get married to him............................................15
39931: He has repented from a relationship
with a non-mahram woman but he still loves
her and feels attached to her..........................................18
20949: Friendship and love between a man and
a woman........................................................................20
43104: It is not permissible to shake hands
with a non-mahram woman, even from behind
a barrier .........................................................................23
22101: He married her in order to forget his
ex-fiancée; and the ruling on correspondence
between the sexes..........................................................25
34841: Men and women talking in chat rooms.............27
26744: Marrying a woman who is not chaste ...............29
27304: Ruling on talking to women at work.................32
26890: Correspondence between the sexes...................35
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27109: He has repented from a relationship with a
woman over the internet................................................36
34685 It is not permissible for a seller to touch
the hand of a woman who is buying from him..............40
12710: Woman smiling at a non-mahram man .............41
33702: He fell in love with a girl then he repented.
Can he be friends with her?...........................................41
12832: Looking at a young female doctor who
is teaching him ..............................................................44
20784: Dangers of mixing with male cousins
and relatives ..................................................................45
20460: Female doctor treating men...............................47
38153: Shaking hands with women in Ramadaan ........49
8827: A mixed school is haraam according to
sharee’ah .......................................................................51
14508: Ruling on shaking hands with an old
woman...........................................................................56
6398: She wants to marry a person she loves
but her family are refusing to let her.............................57
22003: His son got to know a girl through
chat rooms, and he wants to marry her..........................59
21934: She likes our website and wants to help
her friend to find a job! .................................................62
30791: Prohibition on shaking hands with
paternal uncle’s wife even if she is old .........................64
11971: He is in love with a Christian woman
at the expense of his wife..............................................66
1105: Does Islam regard men and women
as equal?........................................................................70
2459: Ruling on shaking hands with the
opposite sex...................................................................80
12663: Ruling on a man kissing or hugging
a woman on the grounds of friendship..........................82
21608: Ruling on male student shaking hands
with a female classmate ................................................84
14044: Is a woman sinning if she shakes hands
with a man?...................................................................86
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26304: Is a woman’s voice ‘awrah?..............................87
10156: He feels that something is discharged
when he talks to women................................................88
13804: A reply to a Christian who denies that
the Quran was revealed from Allah...............................89
10254: She is attracted to a young man at
school and wants a solution ........................................100
9280: Rulings concerning women riding with
drivers and without a mahram.....................................102
3807: Pre-marital relationships are not
permissible ..................................................................103
1114: Ruling on taking boyfriends or girlfriends........105
2013: How to give classes to a mixed group
of (teenage) boys and girls ..........................................109
1774: First and second glance at women ....................110
Chapter 2...............................................................................113
Manners of Speaking With Women.................................113
45668: Is what he did to find out about his
fiancée correct? ...........................................................113
1497: Manners when talking to women......................115
13791: He wants to talk to a woman before
he proposes marriage to her ........................................117
13819: Ruling on looking at a female employee
for work purposes........................................................120
12608: An example of the dangers of internet
chat between the sexes................................................121
13004: Warning and comment on the Peking
Women’s Conference ..................................................123
6118: He is being taught by a female
teacher – what should he do?......................................125
7576: Muslim women giving talks in gatherings
where non-mahram men are present ...........................126
12085: He speaks improperly with a woman,
with the excuse that he is teaching her........................127
3396: He wants to talk to a girl without
saying anything improper............................................129
10221: What is the ruling on girls corresponding
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with boys? ...................................................................130
6453: Men and women talking to one another on
the internet within the limits of good manners............132
1121: Limits and conditions within which a
man may speak to a non-mahram woman...................135
2105: Contact with a fiancée via the Internet..............138
Chapter 3...............................................................................139
Etiquette of Dreams .........................................................139
14096: Seeing Allaah in a dream ................................139
14052: He wants to see the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
in a dream....................................................................142
23367: Seeing the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) in a dream..............................144
14276: Can a sleeper be aware that he is
dreaming?....................................................................147
25768: Dreams ............................................................150
11731: She sees disturbing dreams, and she
imagined having intercourse in her sleep....................156
6537: Dreams and dream interpretation......................157
9771: He dreams about a dead relative
chasing him .................................................................164
Chapter 4...............................................................................165
Reading Quraan ...............................................................165
34494: Playing a recording of Qur’aan when
putting someone on hold.............................................165
20620: Reciting Qur’aan in the bathroom...................166
2564: Reading Qur’aan during menses.......................168
26285: He was listening to the Qur’aan when
the phone rang.............................................................172
26327: Completing the Qur’aan in Ramadaan............172
1377: Meaning of taghanni (‘reciting in a
melodious voice’) in Qur’aan recitation .....................175
10119: Saying “Sadaqa Allaah al-‘Azeem” ................180
9330: Ruling on reciting the Qur’aan in the
manner of singers........................................................183
7966: How to memorize the Holy Qur’aan.................183
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1080: Appointing someone to supervise each
halaqah in order to correct mistakes............................188
4041: Ruling on gathering to recite the Du’aa’
for completing the Qur’aan.........................................189
Chapter 5...............................................................................191
Etiquette of Hospitality....................................................191
34851: Ruling on students standing up for the
teacher .........................................................................191
34497: Ruling on standing up for who comes
in, and kissing him ......................................................192
13776: Ruling on standing up to welcome a
newcomer....................................................................198
14578: When a person enters upon other people,
does he greet the oldest first or the youngest? ............200
Chapter 6...............................................................................201
Adaab al-Safar (Etiquette of Travel)................................201
34464: Visiting the Prophet’s Mosque........................201
Chapter 7...............................................................................205
Etiquette of Marriage.......................................................205
12529: Is it permissible to engage in coitus
interruptus or to use a condom?..................................205
5560: Etiquette of intimate relations...........................206
13518: Younger brother getting married before
older brother................................................................214
11446: How should an Islamic wedding party be? .....216
8866: Is it makrooh to have intercourse facing
the direction of the qiblah?..........................................218
7838: Her husband forces her to have intercourse
during menstruation ....................................................219
1696: What should a man say when he enters
upon his bride?............................................................221
854: What should a Muslim do when he wants
to consummate his marriage?......................................222
2375: When should one pray two rak’ahs with
one’s bride? .................................................................225
1202: What is Said Just Prior to Intercourse...............226
1103: Ruling on Intercourse with a Woman in
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