MODE ONE: Whisper Into a Woman’s Ear What Is REALLY On Your Mind

147 Pages·2017·0.7 MB·English

by  Alan Roger Currie

Copyright © 2017 Alan Roger Currie
10-Digit ISBN 0-9850314-5-X
13-Digit ISBN 978-0-9850314-5-9

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Other Books by Author Alan Roger Currie :

Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking
(2006)

Mode One – HARDCORE: The Definitive Guide to Having Casual
Sex with Women Who Don't Normally Engage in Casual Sex (2007)
Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game Players
Know What You're REALLY Thinking (2009)

Mode One - Semantics & Scenarios: Inside the Mind of the
Manipulative Game Player (2010)

Oooooh . . . Say It Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal
Seduction and Aural Sex (2011)

The Possibility of Sex: How Naive and Lustful Men are Manipulated
by Women Regularly (2012)

The Beta Male Revolution: Why Many Men Have Totally Lost
Interest in Marriage in Today's Society (2016)
Alan Roger Currie
Mode One Multimedia, Inc.
Hollywood, CA 90046
[email protected]
MODE ONE

Whisper Into a Woman's Ear What Is REALLY On Your Mind
ALAN ROGER CURRIE
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Copyright
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter One
Chapter Two
Chapter Three
Chapter Four
Chapter Five
Chapter Six
Chapter Seven
Chapter Eight
Wrap Up & Final Thoughts
Other Books I Recommend
About the Author
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I have had so many men and women support my Mode One philosophies and
principles since October 1990 and beyond, that I could not begin to list each
person who has offered me encouragement and support.
My biggest supporter has always been my brother, Stephen C. Currie. He was
the first person to suggest I put my Mode One principles on paper as some sort
of ‘self-help’ manual for single heterosexual men all the way back in June 1986.
It was not until 1995 that I listened to my brother's advice and documented my
philosophies and principles as a 30-page pamphlet titled, The Mode One
Principles . Years later, in 1999, I converted the pamphlet into an eBook, and
then finally I converted the eBook into a paperback in late February 2006.
Other major supporters of my efforts have been my close friends Jeff Kenton,
Cory Pulliman, Ervin V. Pulliam III, Blake F. Scott, Marlon Scott, and Maurice
L. Taylor. Much love also to Atty. Kimberly Jean Brown.
Some authors who have influenced me and/or inspired me to one degree or
another are: Dr. Brad Blanton, Dr. Susan Campbell, Dr. Stephen R. Covey,
Susan Jeffers, and Rom Wills.
Arguably, my most prominent influence and inspiration for 'The Mode One
Approach' was the late legendary adult film actor John Leslie . If I had never
viewed his performance as the unapologetic womanizer ‘Jack” in Anthony
Spinelli’s 1980 porn classic, Talk Dirty to Me , there is a good chance my Mode
One philosophies and principles would have never been created and
documented.
I offer a ‘salute’ of respect to all the men and women worldwide who encourage
bold truth-telling and highly effective verbal communication skills and
interpersonal communication skills with others.
Thank you all for your continued support.
INTRODUCTION
First, a word about ‘self-improvement’ and personal development books: Most
contain more hype and unsubstantiated ‘theories’ than they do useful
information. At least half of the self-help and personal development books I
have read left me more confused about what I needed help with, than before I
read the book. Realistically, no one self-help book can help you more than you
allow it to help you . Ideally, what a good personal development book seeks to
do is provoke you to reexamine those thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs that you
currently hold on to, that are either directly or indirectly preventing you from
achieving your ultimate objectives in life.
The first event in my life that influenced me to eventually write this book
happened in summer of 1981. I watched a pornographic film titled Talk Dirty to
Me , which was about this man who was a prolific womanizer who had a bold
and unique way of seducing beautiful and sexy women. The fictional
character’s name was ‘Jack’, and he was played by this legendary adult film
actor by the name of John Leslie (Leslie passed away in December 2010 at the
age of 65; God Bless his soul) .
In the film, Jack would seduce women by 1) approaching them, 2) initiating a
conversation with them in a very confident, highly self-assured manner, and 3)
expressing his sexual desires, interests, and intentions to the women using very
provocative, sexually explicit (i.e., XXX-rated) language.
Most of the women in the film would initially have a negative reaction, and they
would proceed to harshly criticize Jack’s erotically explicit manner of verbal
expression. Many of the women would insult him, and a number of the women
would behave as if they were ‘offended’ and ‘insulted’ by his socially
inappropriate behavior and seemingly crass, crude language.
What first caught my eye while watching the film was the fact that Jack would
always remain very cool, calm, collected, and confident in the face of these
seemingly negative reactions by the women. Jack would never become
apologetic, argumentative, defensive, emotionally sensitive, or antagonistic with
the women. He would just take all their criticisms and insults in stride, and
continue to let the women know that he wanted to engage in kinky sex with them
in the very near future.
My brother and another friend of ours named Marlon were watching the film
with me at the time, and both warned me not to take what was happening in the
film too seriously. My brother, Stephen, said at the time, “This is a movie. It is
in the script for those women to respond to Jack in a favorable manner in the
long-run. In real life, a man would get slapped on the face or have a drink
thrown in his face for talking to women using all that very explicit, XXX-rated
language with them.”
Fast forward to approximately three years later. Fortunately for me, I was a bit
stubborn in terms of adhering to my older brother’s advice. After having a few
conversations with some female friends on my college campus (I attended and
graduated from Indiana University in Bloomington, IN), my thinking about
women began to change.
These women whom I was friends with informed me that they were very
frustrated by many of the men on campus for being guilty constantly lying to
them and misleading them into believing that they were interested in maintaining
a long-term monogamous sexual relationship with them, when in reality, these
men were really only interested in engaging in a few episodes of short-term
and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with those same women.
One woman I knew at the time said, “Alan … why are men so dishonest with
women about their desire for casual (non-relationship) sex? Men should just be
straightforward with women when they are not interested in a serious (long-
term) romantic relationship. I hate men who are liars and I hate men who play
head games with women.”
This is when I began to reflect on that adult film I had watched, Talk Dirty to Me
. I thought about the fictional character in the movie named Jack. In the movie,
Jack never felt the need to lie to women or mislead women about his true sexual
desires, interests, and intentions. Jack would verbally communicate his sexual
desires and interests to women in a smooth, seductive, highly self-assured,
upfront, specific and straightforwardly honest manner each time without
hesitation.
I respected this type of approach. Did Jack receive harsh criticisms from the
female characters in the film in response to his bold and explicit conversation
style? Yes. Did Jack find himself on the receiving end of many personal insults
from the female characters in the film, including being referred to as a ‘jerk’ or
‘asshole’? Yes. But probably four out of every five times, Jack would end up
with a woman performing oral sex on him, or even more so, Jack would end up
engaging in sexual intercourse with these women minutes, hours, or days after
these same women had harshly criticized him and frowned on his audacious
verbal communication style.
Long story short, beginning with the start of my fourth year (1984-85) as a
college student on the campus of Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana, I
began to emulate the behavior I observed the fictional character of Jack exhibit
with female characters in the film, Talk Dirty to Me .
At first, I was somewhat afraid of receiving a high number of potentially
negative reactions from women, but after I experienced my first few rejections, I
noticed that I did not feel dejected or agitated at all by them . That amazed
me. In the past, if a woman rejected my romantic or strictly sexual desires and
interests too quickly or too straightforwardly, I would find myself feeling
agitated, bitter, frustrated, or dejected.
Similar to Jack’s experiences with women in the movie, Talk Dirty to Me , some